Statistics show that many people are handling their own family law cases.  If the marriage was short, childless and no real property owned by the parties, this can work.  Otherwise, problems can result.

Children are a big issue in divorces.  You must consider time-sharing, child support, medical insurance, tax deductibility, extra-curricular activities and fees, and travel.  Now the parents must put together a parenting plan which is basically a detailed time-sharing schedule.  This very important document governs the relationship of the parents and the children.

Another important issue is alimony.  Many people forgo alimony because they do not think they are entitled to this benefit.  This complex issue cannot be handled pro se – which means on your own.

Finally, another issue is real property.  Since real property is not easily divisible, this issue becomes complex.  This issue involves an asset as well as the debt.  Real property is especially problematic because many people have no equity or negative equity in the property.

People who attempt to represent themselves when the above issues are present are not acting in their best interest. There are times when it is best to save some money and be your own lawyer.  If these issues are present, it is best to have representation by a family law attorney.

You must realize that when you obtain your Final Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage it is final.  You do not get a “do over.”  In fact, only a few issues are modifiable and it is hard to get the court to modify these issues.  It is best to get the Final Judgment you want rather than trying to modify it later.